“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?”
2 Corinthians 6:14
Brothers and Sisters are you Faithful to God’s Holy Word? This passage of Scriptures can go many directions but it has been laid upon me to minister to the House Of Faith and their Martial Actions. These Scriptures are very clear. You, who have been Paid For by the Blood of Jesus The Christ, are only to marry those within the House Of Faith, you are NOT to marry a Heathen who does not know Jesus As The Christ!
There are consequences if you marry a Heathen that are so unnumbered to even mention here. Each one would have to be dealt with on a one-on-one basis. The Fact of this matter is, you are going to bed with one of Satan’s Followers. As the Scripture here says, “…What Communion Hath Light With Darkness?” the two are opposites, colliding against one another for Dominant Control. The Consequences go beyond the Husband and Wife but will be bred into any children that are born, having both Righteous and Unrighteous DNA passed, causing confusion and pushing them into a realm of Unbelief.
The Church has failed to address this one topic which is a failing. But there is something deeper that The Lord Jesus wants me to address this is to those who are married, whether to a Heathen or a believer, the same rules apply to The Blood Bought.
We must understand and have it stained to the marrow of the bone that God’s Holy Word was spoken, not for God to hear Himself, but was given to Help us BE His Children, to Know God in His Wrath to His Love concerning all those who Submit To His Word. When Instruction is given then it is Expected, Demanded, that we Obey. Some of you do not like the word Obey, which is regardless to The Will Of God. Obeying is an Absolute, there are no Gray Lines, it is Black and White, you Do or you Do Not.
First God’s Ordained Order.
“10 Be it known unto you all, and to all the people of Israel, that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, [even] by him doth this man stand here before you whole. 11 This is the stone which was set at nought of you builders, which is become the head of the corner. 12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
“And are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner [stone];”
Our Faith, our very Walk are all Based Upon Jesus Being Lord of our Lives in Every Aspect of Our Lives! Jesus is the Foundation which we Build Our Lives upon and that in which we build is to Glorify Him! You cannot have any type of Building, without First Setting The Corner Stone and in that One Stone is everything Built Around.
We are to Live Holy as God Is Holy both to those things Seen and to those things Unseen.
Husbands, with Jesus being The Corner Stone, you are to Build, Maintain, Correct and Establish your House into The Order Of Gods Will. Men, you are the Head, not your wife. When we all stand before Jesus and give an account of our lives you will be Accounted As Head, not your wife. To those of you who are not married, let this be the training ground for you in what lies ahead. Men; with you being the Head, that means All Things are according to Your Will, even to those who are not acting as head. You Set The Order of Your House, whether it is to Jesus Glory, or to your own, it does not matter as much as you need to know that it is YOU who has set it and it will be you who will answer for it.
“33 For God is not [the author] of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. 34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but [they are commanded] to be under obedience, as also saith the law. 35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only? 37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. 38 But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant. 39 Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak with tongues. 40 Let all things be done decently and in order.”
1 Corinthians 14:33-40
Firstly, the point that you need to take from this, is, that God does not bring forth Confusion, He is a God Of Order. The Second thing, is that your house is to Set In Order By You, should be as the Scriptures say, letting the Wife ask her husband at home. Third thing this is a Commandment Of Jesus. The Order of a House is set by the Man In Gods Eyes, not the woman. You will give an account to Your House!
Men, your Wife is Your Help Mate. She is to Help you in Building Your House and the only way for your House to be Built according to Jesus, is that You Teach Her Gods Ways according To The Scripture!
“25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.”
Wives, your position is very plan and simple, Submit to Your Husband As Head, whether he is always right or not. Jesus will bring forth more honor to you by doing so. If you do not Submit To Your Husband As Head IN ALL THINGS, (within a Godly home) then you, curse your own life and your children’s lives as well.
“22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing.”
Wives are not a door mat, are not a slave, but are a very important part to the Husbands Role. You are His Helpmate; he is not Your Helpmate. Your Husband has been given the Role as Head Of The House and in him he will answer for you and your children. In you remains the power to teach your children to abide by Gods Holy Word or to abide by fleshly desires that you have to rule. Your Role is to Honor Your Husband as you would Honor Jesus. Is there anything that you would not do for Jesus? Is there any request that Jesus would make that you would not do?
Some things that Husbands and Wives will turn to if they are not taken care of at home is, pornography, masturbation, adultery. These grievous sins are found even among those within the House Of God!
Now that the Foundation has been laid, let’s move on to the Rated R part, that is Sex.
“2 Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except [it be] with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.”
1 Corinthians 7:2-5
Husbands, Wives this is a very important Scripture that needs your full attention to. Husbands LOVE YOUR WIVES, Wives LOVE YOUR HUSBANDS IN SEXUAL AFFAIRS! To brake this down Husbands if your wife is feeling frisky and wants to make Love to you, DO NOT DENY HER, and Wives, if your husband is feeling frisky and wants to make Love to you, DO NOT DENY HIM!!! That is why it say that the Man does not have power over his body and the woman does not over hers. You really, really, really need understand this next part. DEFRAUD NOT! That means do not go against this, do not deny one another at any time unless it is for a Just Cause and then let it be for a short period of time and only then BY PERMISSION! That means that there are only a few times that you should not be having Sexual Times, one of those is when Fasting and Prayer, the other is when the wife is going through her monthly cycle, other than that, YOU ARE NOT TO WITHHOLD SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS WITH YOUR SPOUSE!!! Sexual intimacy is not a bargaining chip.
Now, when you do go against this Scripture then YOU open a door for Satan to Tempt YOU or YOUR SPOUSE in the area of Sex. That means if it lacks at home then you’ll roam! This is going on in the House Of God!
You want to claim to be Blood Bought, but then you pick and choose what Scriptures you want to follow. It’s plain and simple, Husbands You are The Head, Wives Submit to Your Husband as to The Lord Jesus, Do NOT DEFILE YOUR Martial Responsibilities!
Let me brake this down just a little farther. Men are visually stimulated; they are turned on by what they see, then comes the touching. Women they are Feelers; they are turned on moreso by touch than by looking, but not always in all cases on both, but this is in the majority of the time.
So, if a Man is a Looker, then Women why are you teasing men! Do you know there are more Scriptures dealing with Men then there are dealing with Women dealing in the Sexual Area? Man was made to see Beauty and to Obtain It, to Desire it and to Conquer it, you might say. Women were not made in that fashion, God made them to be Sensual To A Man.
Unless a man is just evil, then he will be satisfied at home if he is taken care of, likewise for women. That means that if the Husband or the Wife so desires to have Sex three times a day then so let it be or if once a month is all they desire then so let it be, but in any case, let the Marriage Be NOT DEFILED!!!
The Book, Song Of Solomon speaks of the Desires, The Love of a Husband and Wife. Husbands and Wives should not desire to have any other person they want to make Love To, they should be Satisfied with Whom They Have!
Men I Rebuke you in this, you are the Blame for your House Not Being In Order. Instead of you standing up and saying NO because it is Right In The Lord Jesus’s Eyes, you have given in to Fleshly Desires. Just as Adam fell, not because he did not know, but because he knew and went against God’s Holy Word. Adam should have, could have, put his foot down and said NO to Eve, but instead gave into her Sensual Desire. Men if you allow your Wife, your Daughters to dress Provocatively then YOU ARE IN GREAT SIN! If you allow your Wife, your Daughters to make themselves Appealing To Other Men, in other words, tight clothes, makeup and jewelry in these things draw the sight of men away from what is right, then YOU MEN ARE IN GREAT SIN!!!
If you Men are Not Watchers Of Your House, then Satan is! I did not allow my wife or my daughters to leave the presence of my House if anything was to Draw Attention to them in a Sexual Manner. I did not and will not bow my knee to the world in its Sexual Appetite! If I would have allowed my wife or my daughters, when they were under my roof, to dress and act as the world is then I would have been in Sin and would be facing Jesus in Judgement Accordingly, but because I did not and because I speak against such things, I am hated! So let it BE!!!
To rap this up. Jesus said, talking to MEN, NOT WOMEN the following:
“27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: 28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”
Now, not to go against what Jesus has said, but the same is found among women. They too can Lust after a man wanting to have Sexual Affairs.
This should not be in the House Of God! Husbands and Wives- take care of each other, desire to please one another Sexually, do not give place for Satan to enter in. Jesus has given us the Power and the Authority to overcome this world, but we must do it as He says and desires and not as the world dictates to us to do!! If a Husband or Wife desires another who is really the blame? Could it be something you are not doing that is tempting your mate?
As The Lord Jesus just reminded me, Husbands and Wives, if you are fighting over things, including; Money, Jobs, Friends, Family or anything, that will affect your Sexual relationship with your mate, your Sexual Desires to be Satisfied.
As always your choice…
Amen and Amen!!!
Be Blessed in the Mighty Name of Jesus, Our Lord and Savior!!!
Amen and Amen!!!
4 thoughts on “Rated R”
Apiostle Lee , as much as I agree with you that marrying a person that isn’t of the same faith is a grave mistake. But now that they have done it and found that they have made a mistake . How do they change it? If you have children the mistake becomes a much larger problem . Getting a divorce if no children are involved is easy. You can’t ram your faith down a persons throat but you can love them in every way you can. Even when they are knocking your faith. If you married the person because you love them and you knew they had no faith, you must have seen something in them you thought you could bring them to your faith. It’s tough road to travel but beating them over the head with religious stuff or begging isn’t the answer. The answer is prayer and love. All things are possible with God and Jesus said ” Ask in my name and your prayers would be answered. ” Love, Faith and prayer is answer to a lot of our problems.
I apologize for such a delay in replying. My Brother, it is not that we continue to beat, but that our Lives, both in Word and Deed, pushes the Darkness Out. If it is Sin, that call it as such, do not sugar coat it. When we Stand before Jesus the Grace we will find will be in the Love we have for Him and in that Love we Must be Obedient In Word and Deed, that is what will Judge Us!
Unless we love our neighbors and even those that hate us . We won’t enter those pearly gates. I never said we need to agree with their ways or approve of what they do. But if they need anything we should provide it. God will take care the judging.
Blessings my Brother! We, The Church, are not to be Entangled with those who are in the World, meaning that yes, we Live In The World, we Interact with The World, but, the problem is that those who are supposed to be Delivered From The Sins Of The World are still Abiding By Worldly Affairs, in Marriage, Relationships, Within The Church and Without The Church, because of this, Doctrine is being changed, is being White Washed. Ministers/Leadership are not Upholding The Word, but, Soften The Word to Cause No Offence, but do not realize their Greatest Offence is To Jesus. We are told in Scripture that we are to be Separated From The World, that if We Love Jesus, then we Must Be Obedient, Loving the Ungodly is Not the problem, it is Allowing The Ungodly to Affect Whom Our God Is. Right now, The World sees little difference between us and them. Are we to Judge, Yes, but not in Condemning someone to the Lake Of Fire, but, we can set forth the same Judgement that Our Lord Jesus set, which is, If He is not made Lord, then they Cannot Enter Heaven, that is His Judgment, not mine. I Believe the Entire Word Of God, from the Old Testament to the New Testament and I will not Change or Add To what The Father, Son and Holy Spirit Agree Upon. Amen and Amen!!!